Bob Decolfmacker ’78
- Alumnus; On Location
Bob and his wife, Trish, moved to Cambridge, Mass., during his studies to soak in the full campus experience and to reflect on what life in their 50s means.
“My personal view is that we spend a lot of time concentrating on careers and our families when we’re young,” he says. “I think you have to spend as much time thinking about what your next steps are in your 50s as you did in your 20s.”
Bob is approaching facing his 50s much the way he has in years past – with study and reflection. His latest read is “Passion, Risk and Adventure in the Twenty-five Years After 50” by Harvard profess Sarah Lawrence-Lightfoot.
“I heard once that someone who went to Vietnam had gotten into trouble and he was threatened by a superior officer. He said, ‘Well, what’s the worst that you can do to me? Send me to Vietnam and make me work nights?” Bob recalls “I remember that so vividly. It gave me a lot of perspective moving forward and I learned not to take things so seriously.”

